The fatal shooting of a Tacoma police officer started as a response to a domestic violence situation.
Tacoma Police Chief Donald Ramsdell says the most responded-to call for service in the city involves domestic violence. What’s scary is that most cases of domestic violence are never reported to police.
The department estimates the cost of domestic violence exceeds $5.8 Billion. Boys who witness domestic violence are twice as likely to abuse their own partners or children when they become adults.
Violence and abuse affect women and children from all kinds of backgrounds every day. Sometimes, women are attacked by strangers, but most often they are hurt by people who are close to them.
If you or someone you know are in an abusive relationship, there are many resources available that you or a loved one can turn to for help. Even if you don't know someone experiencing domestic violence, there are steps you can take to help victims.
Domestic Violence Hotlines
Several domestic violence hotlines are available in Washington state. These hotlines provide a direct connection to the nearest domestic violence program and resources, including safe shelter, advocacy, counseling and legal assistance. They also provide crisis assistance, emotional support, and safety planning.
Washington State Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-562-6025 (Voice and TTY) (8am-5pm every day)
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (Voice) (24 hours every day)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
King County Domestic Violence
Call 911 now if you or someone else is in immediate danger. If you want to speak to someone about domestic violence:
Seattle: 206-205-5555
Statewide toll free: 1-800-562-6025
Anywhere else in the United States: 1-800-799-SAFE
The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
Call 866-331-9474 or 866-331-8453 (TDD).
Staff are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
You will hear a recording and may have to wait for a short time.
You can get help through a live online chat from 5:00 p.m. to 3:00 a.m. (Eastern Standard Time). Learn more about the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline live chat.
You can also chat with helpline staff via email or text LOVEIS to 22522.
The National Sexual Assault Hotline
Call 800-656-4673.
Staff are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Get Help for Violence
Violence and abuse affect women from all kinds of backgrounds every day. Sometimes, women are attacked by strangers, but most often they are hurt by people who are close to them. Violence and abuse can cause terrible physical and emotional pain. But victims are not alone, and they can get help. The following are steps and resources provided by the U.S. Office on Women's Health:
How to help a friend who is being abused
How you can help end violence against women
Violence does not hurt only the person who has experienced it. It hurts the whole community. Learn ways you can work to help end violence against women. Here are some suggestions:
- Call the police if you see or hear evidence of domestic violence.
- Support a friend or family member who may be in an abusive relationship. Learn more about how to help.
- Volunteer at a local domestic violence shelter or other organization that helps survivors or works to prevent violence.
- Raise children to respect others. Teach children to treat others as they would like to be treated.
- Lead by example. Work to create a culture that rejects violence as a way to deal with problems. Speak up against messages that say violence or mistreating women is okay.
- Become an activist. Participate in an anti-violence event like a local Take Back the Night march. Tell your congressional representatives that you want them to support domestic violence services and violence prevention programs.
- Volunteer in youth programs. Become a mentor. Get involved in programs that teach young people to solve problems without violence. Get involved with programs that teach teens about healthy relationships.
- Ask about anti-violence policies and programs at work and school. At work, ask about policies that deal with sexual harassment, for example. On campus, ask about services to escort students to dorms safely at night and other safety measures.
Domestic Violence Resources and Organizations
Download a directory of Tribal domestic violence and sexual assault programs in Washington State.
Adams County
- New Hope DV/SA Services, Moses Lake, WA. Office: (509) 764-8402, Crisis Line: (888) 560-6027
Asotin County
- YWCA of Lewiston/Clarkston, Lewiston, ID. Office: (208) 743-1535, Crisis Line: (800) 669-3176
Benton County
- DV Services of Benton & Franklin Counties, Kennewick, WA. Office: (509) 735-1295, Crisis Line: (509) 582-9841
Chelan County
- NW Immigrant Rights Project, Wenatchee, WA. Office: 509.570.0054, Crisis Line: 866.271.2084
- Sage, Wenatchee, WA. Office: (509) 663-7446, Crisis Line: (509) 663-7446
Clallam County
- Forks Abuse Program, Forks, WA. Office: (360) 374-6411, Crisis Line: (360) 374-2273
- Healthy Families of Clallam County, Port Angeles, WA. Office: (360) 452-3811, Crisis Line: (360) 452-4357
- Lower Elwha Klallam Tribe – Family Advocacy Program, Port Angeles, WA. Office: (360) 565-7257
Clark County
- Cowlitz Indian Tribe – Pathways to Healing, Vancouver, WA. Office: (360) 397-8228
- YWCA Clark County/Safe Choice, Vancouver, WA. Office: (360) 696-0167, Crisis Line: (800) 695-0501
Columbia County
- YWCA – Walla Walla, Dayton, WA. Office: (509) 382-9922, Crisis Line: (509) 382-9922
Cowlitz County
- Emergency Support Shelter, Kelso, WA. Office: (360) 425-1176, Crisis Line: (360) 636-8471
Douglas County
- Sage, Wenatchee, WA. Office: (509) 663-7446, Crisis Line: (509) 663-7446
Ferry County
- Rural Resources Victim Services, Coleville, WA. Office: (509) 684-3796, Crisis Line: (509) 684-6139 or 844-509-SAFE (7233)
Franklin County
- DV Services of Benton & Franklin Counties, Kennewick, WA. Office: (509) 735-1295, Crisis Line: (509) 582-9841
Garfield County
- YWCA of Lewiston/Clarkston, Lewiston, ID. Office: (208) 743-1535, Crisis Line: (800) 669-3176
Grant County
- New Hope DV/SA Services, Moses Lake, WA. Office: (509) 764-8402, Crisis Line: (888) 560-6027
Grays Harbor County
- Chehalis Confederated Tribe – Domestic Violence Program, Oakville, WA. Office: (360) 273-5911, Crisis Line: (360) 709-1874
- Domestic Violence Center of Grays Harbor, Hoquiam, WA. Office: (360) 538-0733, Crisis Line: (800) 818-2194
Island County
- Citizens Against Domestic & Sexual Abuse (CADA), Oak Harbor, WA. Office: (360) 675-7057, Crisis Line: (800) 215-5669
Jefferson County
- DOVE House Advocacy Services, Port Townsend, WA. Office: (360) 385-5292, Crisis Line: (360) 385-5291
King County
Seattle Area
- Abused Deaf Women’s Advocacy Services (ADWAS), Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 922-7088 TTY, Crisis Line: (206) 812-1001
- API Chaya, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 568-7576
- Consejo Counseling & Referral Services, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 467-9976
- The DoVE Project, Vashon, WA. Office: (206) 715-0258, Crisis Line: (206) 462-0911
- Jewish Family Services – Project DVORA, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 461-3240, Crisis Line: (206) 461-3222
- New Beginnings, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 783-4520, Crisis Line: (206) 522-9472
- NW Immigrant Rights Project, Seattle, WA. Office: 206-587-4009, Crisis Line: 206-957-8621
- NW Network of Bisexual, Trans, Lesbian & Gay Survivors of Abuse, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 568-7777
- Multi-Communities, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 937-7155
- Refugee Women’s Alliance, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 721-0243, Crisis Line: (206) 721-0243
- Salvation Army-Catherine Booth House, Seattle, WA. Crisis Line: (206) 324-4943
- Salvation Army Domestic Violence Programs, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 447-9944
- Salvation Army-Hickman House Transitional Housing, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 932-5341
- Seattle Indian Health Board, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 324-9360
- Solid Ground – Broadview Emergency Shelter and Transitional Housing Program, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 299-2500, Crisis Line: (206) 299-2500
- YWCA of Seattle/King/Snohomish, Seattle, WA. Office: (206) 490-4353, Crisis Line: (206) 461-4882
Eastside
- LifeWire, Bellevue, WA. Office: (425) 562-8840, Crisis Line: (425) 746-1940
South King County
- Domestic Abuse Women’s Network (DAWN), Tukwila, WA. Office: (425) 656-4305, Crisis Line: (425) 656-7867
- Jennifer Beach Foundation, Covington, WA. Office: (206) 833-5366
- YWCA of South King County, Renton, WA. Office: (425) 226-1266
Kitsap County
- YWCA of Kitsap County-ALIVE Program, Bremerton, WA. Office: (360) 479-0522, Crisis Line: (800) 500-5513
Kittitas County
- Abuse, Support & Prevention Education Now (ASPEN), Ellensburg, WA. Office: (509) 925-9384
Klickitat County
- Programs for Peaceful Living, Bingen, WA. White Salmon Office: 509-493-1533, Goldendale Office: 509-773-6100, Crisis Line: (800) 352-5541
Lewis County
- Human Response Network, Chehalis, WA. Office: (360) 748-6601
Lincoln County
- Family Resource Center, Davenport, WA. Office: (509) 725-4358, Crisis Line: (509) 725-4360
Mason County
- Turning Pointe, Shelton, WA. Office: (360) 426-1216, Crisis Line: (360) 432-1212
Okanogan County
- Room One, Twisp, WA. Office: (509) 997-2050, Crisis Line: (509) 997-2050
- The Support Center, Omak, WA. Office: (509) 826-3221, Crisis Line: (888) 826-3221
Pacific County
- Crisis Support Network, Raymond, WA. Office: (360) 875-6702, Crisis Line: (800) 435-7276
Pend Oreille County
- Kalispel Tribe Victim Assistance Services, Usk, WA. Office: (509) 445-1664, Crisis Line: (877) 700-7175
- Pend Oreille Crime Victim Services, Newport, WA. Office: (509) 447-2274, Crisis Line: (509) 447-5483
Pierce County
- Eatonville Family Agency, Eatonville, WA. Office: (360) 832-6805
- Puyallup Tribe of Indians – Community DV Advocacy Program, Puyallup, WA. Office: (253) 680-5499, Crisis Line: (253) 680-5499
- Tacoma Community House Client Advocacy Services, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 383-3951
- Korean Women’s Association, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 535-4202, Crisis Line: (253) 535-4202
- YWCA of Pierce County, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 272-4181, Crisis Line: (253) 383-2593
- Crystal Judson Family Justice Center, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 798-4310, Crisis Line: (253) 798-4166
- Oasis Youth Center, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 671-2838, Crisis Line: (253) 988-2108
- Rainbow Center, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 383-2318
- Rebuilding Hope! Sexual Assault Center of Pierce County, Tacoma, WA. Crisis Line: (253) 474-7273
- Joint Base Lewis-McChord Family Advocacy Program, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 966-7233
- Family Renewal Shelter, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 475-9010
- Our Sister's House, Tacoma, WA. Office: (253) 383-4275
San Juan County
- SAFE San Juans, Eastsound, WA
- Lopez Island, Office: (360) 468-3788, Crisis Line: (360) 468-4567
- Orcas Island, Office: (360) 376-5979, Crisis Line: (360) 376-1234
- San Juan Island, Office: (360) 378-8680, Crisis Line: (360) 378-2345
Skagit County
- Skagit Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Services, Mount Vernon, WA. Office: (360) 336-9591, Crisis Line: (888) 336-9591
Skamania County
- Skamania County Council on Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault, Stevenson, WA. Office: (509) 427-4210, Crisis Line: (877) 427-4210
Snohomish County
- Domestic Violence Services of Snohomish County, Everett, WA. Office: (425) 259-2827, Crisis Line: (425) 252-2873
- Tulalip Indian Tribe – Legacy of Healing Advocacy Center and Safe House, Tulalip, WA. Office: (360) 714-4400
Spokane County
- Abuse Recovery Ministry and Services, Spokane, WA. Office: (509) 484-0600
- YWCA – Alternatives to Domestic Violence, Spokane, WA. Office: (509) 789-9297, Crisis Line: (509) 326-2255
Stevens County
- Rural Resources Victim Services, Colville, WA. Office: (509) 684-3796, Crisis Line: (509) 684-6139 or 844-509-SAFE (7233)
- Spokane Indian Tribe – Family Violence Program, Wellpinit, WA. Office: (509) 258-7502
Thurston County
- Chehalis Confederated Tribes DV Program, Oakville, WA. Office: (360) 273-5911
- Eatonville Family Agency, Eatonville, WA. Office: (360) 832-6805
- SafePlace, Olympia, WA. Office: (360) 786-8754, Crisis Line: (360) 754-6300
- Thurston County Family Justice Center – The Family Support Center, Olympia, WA. Office: (360) 754-9297
Wahkiakum County
- Charlotte House/St. James Domestic Violence Program, Cathlamet, WA. Office: (360) 795-8612, Crisis Line: (360) 795-6400
Walla Walla County
- YWCA-Walla Walla, Walla Walla, WA. Office: (509) 525-2570, Crisis Line: (509) 529-9922
Whatcom County
- Community to Community, Bellingham , WA. Office: (360) 738-0893
- Dorothy Place (a part of Opportunity Council), Bellingham, WA. Office: (360) 734-5121
- Lummi Victims of Crime, Bellingham, WA. Office: (360) 384-2285
- Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Services of Whatcom County, Bellingham, WA. Office: (360) 671-5714, Crisis Line: (360) 715-1563
Whitman County
- Alternatives to Violence of the Palouse, Pullman, WA. Office: (509) 332-0552, Crisis Line: (509) 332-4357
Yakima County
- Lower Valley Crisis Support Services, Sunnyside, WA. Office: (509) 837-6689, Crisis Line: (509) 837-6689
- NW Immigrant Rights Project, Granger, WA. Office: (509) 854-2100, Crisis Line: (888) 756-3641
- YWCA-Family Crisis Program, Yakima, WA. Office: (509) 248-7796, Crisis Line: (509) 248-7796