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Shoreline foster families help refugee kids become US citizens

by LORI MATSUKAWA / KING 5 News

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Posted on July 1, 2010 at 6:31 PM

SHORELINE, Wash. -- With the Fourth of July just around the corner, there's nothing more patriotic than being able to say, "I'm an American." Six refugee brothers and sisters are taking the first steps toward that goal through a foster program supported by the U.S. State Department.

The siblings, ages 3 to 14, escaped the horror of a civil war in the Democratic Republic of Congo which killed their parents. The United States is the only country in the world with a program to find foster homes for unaccompanied refugee children. These brothers and sisters now live in two Shoreline foster homes. Their American parents will raise them until adulthood when they can become citizens.

"I love the liberty of of being able to accomplish what I want to do without fear of the soldiers coming around," says the eldest sister in French. She says math and science are her favorite subjects in school and thanks God for keeping her siblings together.

Foster parents Barbara and Jeremy Tantrum already have a biological daughter, an adopted daughter and a son on the way. They say foster parenting means dishing up a lot of fried chicken and love.

"You hear a lot of what's going on in the world and you want to be able to do something," says Barbara. "Most of the time you feel pretty helpless. You can't do a lot. But this is something we can do."

"You start forming bonds," adds Jeremy. "Eventually you get to the point where you don't want to say, 'You're 21, go away!' You want to say, 'We want you to be part of our lives.'"

Molly Daggett at Lutheran Community Services Northwest says there's financial reimbursement and an array of social services for families. 

"It's really amazing and it really makes me very proud of the United States that we alone do this," says Daggett. "We give safety and shelter to the most vulnerable of refugees."

The Tantrums say theirs is quite the All-American family. Barbara gives her 3-year-old a hug.

"She'd been here a couple months and she was sitting on my lap. She said, 'You Mama' and I'm like, 'Yeah, I'm your mama.'"

Child refugee settlement programs are run by Lutheran Community Services Northwest in Seattle and Catholic Community Services in Tacoma.  For more information go to www.refugeechildren.net.

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erikacb said on July 3, 2010 at 9:03 AM

What a moving story. As the mother of a nine-year-old, I can't imagine more humbling or inspiring role models than refugee children who arrive without an adult caregiver and can't afford the luxury of taking our innermost values - love, health, peace, and freedom - for granted.

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jwright771984 said on July 3, 2010 at 4:04 AM

@ramac7716: Too true. A revolution is coming. The government takes our liberties and rights left and right. They should know we are not happy. If you push someone enough, they WILL fight back. It's only a matter of time now...

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ramac7716 said on July 2, 2010 at 7:32 PM

the US is not a safe place any more its over get ready it will only get worse

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jwright771984 said on July 2, 2010 at 1:24 PM

@tnguyen88: Very well said. People complain about immigrants in our country legal or otherwise yet they fail to realize the majority of americans, by association of our ancestors, are immigrants themselves. This country was founded on helping others and giving people a safe place to live. Obviously those who complain have never read the quote on the statue of liberty. For those of you who haven't here is what it says: "Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!" Also I would like to note, the statue of liberty was designed by a french person and constructed IN france. It was given to us as a gift from the french. So in a way even the statue of liberty is an immigrant.

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tnguyen88 said on July 2, 2010 at 9:06 AM

Please Note: Your very own Super Man was not only a foster child, but also an alien!

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tnguyen88 said on July 2, 2010 at 9:04 AM

I don't think many people understand the concept of a refugee. We define refugee as one who, in times of persecution or political commotion, flees to a foreign power or country for safety. These young children from all around the world have escaped poverty and war torn countries in hope of a better future. Just like your grandparents or great grand parents who have left their country and came to the U.S. to create a life and future for themselves, their children and the new generation. All of us, unless you are of Native American descendants, are considered foreign to this country in some kind of way by association of our ancestors. There are all kinds of help and opportunities in our country and it is those who take advantage of these opportunities that will persevere. I am very proud of what these people and programs have done and support their hard work in creating a diverse foundation for the future of America.

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seamom said on July 2, 2010 at 8:58 AM

Wow, I had no idea our country did such an amazing thing! How cool. Sounds like these kids are really lucky to be safe from war. Hats off to the family for welcoming them.

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andi_pants said on July 2, 2010 at 8:58 AM

I for one am so proud that the USA takes in these needy children. That's what our country was founded on - giving a safe haven to those who have lost their homes due to persecution or war. These kids are the future! Keep up the good work.

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creed09 said on July 2, 2010 at 8:56 AM

Very heartwarming story! It's nice to know people are reaching out to help the children of the World of which we are all citizens.

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my2boys109 said on July 2, 2010 at 7:05 AM

send them back ...

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abunker said on July 1, 2010 at 9:31 PM

NOPE.... Sorry .....how many years are we going to support their welfare, medical and income --there life Time I figure! Time to take care of our own people's needs and the nation 'first and foremost' !

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