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Fiancé of missing mom sharing more information with police

by DREW MIKKELSEN / KING 5 News

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Posted on March 16, 2010 at 10:10 AM

Updated Wednesday, Mar 17 at 7:25 AM

OLYMPIA, Wash.  - There is new information about the missing Kitsap County woman and her son. Her fiancé says she's a recovering alcoholic and recently relapsed because of a lot of stress in her life.

Detectives said Robb Simmons has started to share a lot more about his relationship with Shantina Smiley, but it hasn't helped them solve the mystery.

Late Tuesday afternoon, we found out detectives were looking at surveillance video from a diner in Olympia, one of the last places the mother and son were seen Saturday night.

Shantina's van was found Sunday morning with the doors and back hatch wide open, abandoned and partially submerged on a Puget Sound beach.

Shantina and her 8-year-old son Azriel were supposed to drive from Silverdale down to Castle Rock Saturday evening, but they never even got close. Her family has no idea what happened.

On Tuesday her fiancé revealed she had been under stress lately. He said he's been having health issues and fears he might have cancer. So this past week he suggested they get married.

That's when she started drinking again. But he does not think that played any role in what happened.

"The idea she would stop and drink is not a realistic thing. I do not see her doing that, I don't see herself doing that putting herself at risk, getting in trouble with the law, putting her son at risk," he said.

Detectives say they're trying to learn all they can about Smiley's emotional state and trying to determine if she had any mental or physical health problems Saturday night. She has no history of such problems.

Search efforts in the water and the woods around the beach wrapped up late Tuesday.

Police say Shantina is 5-foot-9, 140 pounds, with dark hair. Simmons says she has numerous tattoos, including one on her neck, and both wrists. She also had a couple of lightning bolts on her back. Azriel is 4-foot-2, 100 pounds, with a blond mohawk.

The search for Shantina and Azriel was called off late Tuesday afternoon and no new searches are planned.

The Sheriff’s Office is asking for the public’s help with any information on Shantina and her son. Contact the Sheriff’s Office at 360-786-5530 or 5500.

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carlconstantine said on March 18, 2010 at 8:32 PM

This guy needs to be taken into custody and interrogated in a jail cell for 27 hours to find out what he really knows. Enough milking the 15 minutes of fame already! Either you know what happened or you don't. Obviously he drove her to drinking and she totally lost it...

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ibelieveinangels said on March 18, 2010 at 7:22 PM

This is not adding up. Hmmm.. who had the life insurance policy on them. I don't get why the timing for her relape was so recent .Did anyone see this? Then brought to life by fiance who then puts a spin on it and says that she would never put her child in danger. If she was going to get married why would she take her life and her sons? And why did the fiance not go with them if they were to be a family? And especially since she had some news that cancer was a possibility.. or was it? It all fits to neatly. cancer.. started drinking... let's get married.getting married doesn't heal cancer .. and married doesn't mean that you love that person anymore.. What if she was to meet someone somewhere and they kept changing the distination.. she stopped got directions was asked to pick up some wine to celebrate ... Will we ever know? All I know I see a mom that looks like she enjoyed her kid was not annoyed by him so for her to take his life doesn't make sense. She would have left him .

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trojan33 said on March 17, 2010 at 9:06 PM

inforlife - So angry.

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inforelife said on March 17, 2010 at 8:46 PM

Do You look like a freak too?

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janea said on March 17, 2010 at 8:28 PM

Shantina is a friend of mine and to all of you people writing the negative comments about her and her fiance you should be ashamed of your self. These are good people and their families dont need this gossip. We need to pray for the family and for Shantina and sons safe return.

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lindugh said on March 17, 2010 at 7:31 PM

Drove bf's van? Went to see a stepfather that she hasn't seen for 2 years? BF left home one & 1/2 hours after she did? Why not go together? Sounds like she wanted to get away and did not want to be called (hence, doesn't have telephone). What does the stepfather have to say about the phone call he received? I do not believe the kind family who let her use phone & gave child pizza did not know she was drunk! And we know she was drunk, which explains all the store stops. Another thing I believe is that she got off the freeway to buy liquor. Where is this woman's family (i.e., father, mother, siblings???). This woman stinks to high heaven and so does her boyfriend. Hey, I might have cancer so let's get married? What a loser! p.s. remeber the diane schuler story... driving around for hours getting plastered with kids in the car. This happens all the time so those of you who think mothers wouldn't do that are very wrong. Alkie's will!

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tm206 said on March 17, 2010 at 3:28 PM

lots of speculation here when nobody knows anything except that her life was less than perfect and now shes missing. everyone has their own issues, its only when you list them all together that makes it sound worse than it is. maybe we should wait to see what actually happens instead of making assumptions.

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kevbob said on March 17, 2010 at 1:48 PM

In the surveillance video from the mini-mart she appears to be purchasing a large bottle of wine.

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kevbob said on March 17, 2010 at 1:27 PM

In the surveillance video from the mini-mart she appears to be buying a large bottle of cheap wine.

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bobknows said on March 17, 2010 at 12:30 PM

Lets see. She's an alcoholic who started drinking again the week before her vehicle ended up in the bay. She was probably drunk (or on meth) when she forgot her purchase and fell down at a store. I am so sorry for the little boy. He should have been safe with his father.

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dasindog said on March 17, 2010 at 8:41 AM

Police call off the search after only 3 days. That means either they searched everywhere they could, or they have information that is not yet public. I'd put $10 on the latter.

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kennovak67184564 said on March 17, 2010 at 7:48 AM

So, what if the boyfriend sent her out in his van to pick up something. Say, he has a friend that needs a package, or something, delivered and asks if she can drop it off on the way out of town. The directions are unnaturally vague and she gets lost. Calls the boyfriend for better directions and he sends her to his pre-determined meeting place, say a dirt road close to where she is. They meet, or his accomplice meets her, the mom and son are taken from there. The van gets a quick staging and 'ghost driven' into the water. Then all the parties leave the area to points unknown.... Tune in next week to see the amazing developments!

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the_commando said on March 17, 2010 at 7:26 AM

This woman ran away! Wake up and smell your reality!

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carlconstantine said on March 17, 2010 at 6:19 AM

Nobody has addressed the fact that the minivan that she ditched is a Chrysler. That in itself could have caused her undue stress, which could lead to a mental break. Chrysler minivans and Dodge Caravans are so crappy, don't be amazed that she dumped it. Way to go Chrysler... Hah! Hah! Hah!

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magic said on March 17, 2010 at 4:55 AM

Reading all these comments is amusing. However, I do have to say, the story is pretty fishy. Mom's are natural protectors and to just up and dissappear without a trace isn't natural. Any Mom in their right mind would not behave the way she did, any Mom in their right mind would not just vanish knowing that people would be worried about them. Combine that with the strange, very strange behavior in the hours before they vaporized adds doubt to their story. Now we learn the bit by bit details of depression, stress, and alcoholism...sounds even more like another whacked out Mother. Her actions are not that of a protective Mom, they are the actions of someone who is off their rocker, unfortunately she took a child with her.

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jenasal said on March 16, 2010 at 9:19 PM

Your all unreal you know I have a question for you, do you feel bad and stupid when you say things to soon and it comes out you were wrong? She was lost she went to a home, and no sign of her drinking was detected, and where she got her car stuck was a dark wooded gravel dirt road, how is it fishy? I pray for a good outcome for this family!

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lildsaunty said on March 16, 2010 at 8:07 PM

There's something fishy about the fiance,he thinks way too highly of himself.I was listening to him on the Ron and Don show definatly the stalker type in my oppinion!!

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aziza said on March 16, 2010 at 7:57 PM

The fiance's online explanation of this is really eerie. Hate to snap to judgement, but it reads like an alibi as opposed to a plea for help in finding this woman and her child.

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cantbelievenews said on March 16, 2010 at 7:10 PM

It is strange that the fiance now has more to say about Shantina's state of mind. I was married to an abusive man for too many years. He had a great way of sounding as though he was supportive of me...concerned about me...and then dropping little "bombs" about my personality. Those little "bombs" were usually faintly true...just enough to make me seem wrong. Never close to the truth. This is so very frightening. It would be nice to be able to trust the man that says he is most concerned for her. He is the one person that keeps coming up with more information about her. He seems to be selective about that information. I'm just sayin'.

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siusir said on March 16, 2010 at 6:34 PM

Wow, story gets better (or maybe convoluted) is the mystery deepens. Police should grill this fiancé some more. First she's just a happy camper who don't know how to drive home (where she grew up). Now, she's a relapsing alcoholic under stress and depressed. Sounds like he knows more than he is letting on. Either she was trying to get away from him and the "I have cancer, let's get married" future, or maybe it's just like those other recent crimes: the man (husband, bf or ex) in her life did it. Lets hope not.

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trojan33 said on March 16, 2010 at 5:21 PM

inforlife- Which head do I take it off of? Because, I don't want to take it off the wrong one and make your Mom mad.

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mclovin said on March 16, 2010 at 5:04 PM

"So this past week he suggested they get married. That's when she started drinking again." Hilarious!

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oneski said on March 16, 2010 at 4:43 PM

Many years ago in Whatcom County a man staged an accident so that it would look like he had died. He sent his car into the river and he took off on foot. Months later he was found in another state. At the time of the staged accident he had lost his job, was depressed and suicidal, and thought the best thing for his wife and kids would be if he went away. He couldn't bring himself to commit suicide, so ran away instead. Sometimes when you are depressed it's hard to make logical and rational decisions. She may have taken off with her son. I am hoping that is the case and that they didn't meet up with any violent or dangerous characters. The fellow in my story eventually returned home and is back with his family and doing well.

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mrcrowley said on March 16, 2010 at 4:35 PM

I have cancer, lets get married? Maybe she needs some some space to ponder that promising future.....

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inforelife said on March 16, 2010 at 4:19 PM

Well, Come on! Tell us What You think Happened!

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inforelife said on March 16, 2010 at 4:17 PM

And I suppose You think Shes Hiding under her Bed!

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inforelife said on March 16, 2010 at 4:15 PM

And You Can Do Better? Ok, Let's Here it S.it for Brains!

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1beachperson said on March 16, 2010 at 3:46 PM

Inforelife - You can't be that educated. You can't spell, use appropriate punctuation, or know when to capitalize! Glad to know your internet access is used to such benefit - spouting theories you know nothing about. Go away troll.

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inforelife said on March 16, 2010 at 3:34 PM

trojan33, Take the Condom off Your Head so You can Breath!

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trojan33 said on March 16, 2010 at 2:27 PM

So you really are in for life. Must be nice to have free internet access.

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inforelife said on March 16, 2010 at 2:21 PM

OK, Here's My thoughts. She is Heavily Medicated, Could not take the Questioning from her Son after She got lost, And ended His Life. She Then Called Her Boyfriend, told him, Who in turn told her to hide and he will help her. Now, I am Educated In These Matters (Believe it or not) And This is Being looked at.

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snowapple said on March 16, 2010 at 2:19 PM

Her fiance was on Sheppard Smith (Fox News) and said that Shantina is a recovering alcoholic and that she relapsed as late as last week. This could explain some of her behavior. As soon as Sheppard Smith heard this he sort of dismissed the whole thing. Maybe that's why it hasn't been covered here. No matter what, we still need to find to them.

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yogibear said on March 16, 2010 at 2:09 PM

This has to be the weirdest story ever. I hope they are ok

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saera said on March 16, 2010 at 2:02 PM

i dunno, feels like she wanted to get away to me.

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truthdector said on March 16, 2010 at 12:21 PM

The whole event is a fishy story, I smell a staged event.

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lundgren said on March 16, 2010 at 10:43 AM

PROFILERS AND PSYCHICS, GET UR @$$ES MOVING! TIME IS LIFE OR DEATH!!

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