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Family left grieving in shooting death at a Federal Way church

by TONYA MOSLEY / KING 5 News

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Posted on March 18, 2010 at 2:24 PM

Updated Thursday, Mar 18 at 4:17 PM

FEDERAL WAY, Wash. - Howard Hales holds back tears as he talks about his youngest sister Carol.

"She was working hard to be the best possible mother to her three children. She was a great mother," said Hales.

Wednesday evening, 38-year-old Carol Hales and her estranged husband, 42-year-old Charles (Chuck) Parsons of Lakewood, were attending a counseling session at Lutheran Counseling Network at Calvary Lutheran Church on South 320th in Federal Way.

Police say sometime during that counseling session, Charles shot Carol before calling police. She died a short time later.

"Truly, honestly, in my heart I'm sure Chuck is sitting there in jail right now and he has a lot of deep regrets over what he's done to my sister, to his children," said Hales. "I know that somewhere in there this is not what is in his heart."

Carol's mother tells KING 5 her daughter had been separated from her husband for a year and a half. They'd been married 12 years and have three children - ages 11, 9 and 5.

Carol, according to her brother, had been going to counseling for 8 months, and in the last few months Charles had been attending. The victim's brother says there were no signs of abuse or indication that Charles would do something like this.

"You can always look back," said Hales. "But we never saw this coming."

The couple's children are now staying with their grandmother, who coincidentally runs a daycare center right upstairs from where the shooting happened.

The counseling center is located in a building connected to the church, which was closed today.

Parsons' bail was set at $5 million on first-degree murder charges. He is expected back in court sometime later this month.

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salongirl55 said on March 20, 2010 at 2:49 AM

Carol Jean, we love you and will miss you. Save us a good spot in heaven. You will be our guardian angel to watch over us until we meet again in paradise. Rest in peace, my dear friend Carol Jean. Your friend forever, Torie.

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salongirl55 said on March 20, 2010 at 2:46 AM

I was good friends with Carol for over twenty years. Her EX-husband had bullied, threatened, and verbally abused her for their entire marriage. To bobknows, you should not make comments about situations you don't know anything about. Your statements hurt and offend those of us who were close to Carol and who are now grieving. She did NOT take the kids away - as a matter of fact, they were in a family counseling session discussing their joint parenting and upbringing of their children. It was at this time that he willfully chose to end the life of the mother of his kids. If this is the kind of action that you support and condone, then as far as I'm concerned, you're a ticking time bomb yourself and deserve a cell right next to Mr. Parsons. Carol was in school and working hard to provide a loving and stable environment for her children. She also strove diligently to ensure that her former spouse was included in any issues and decisions regarding the kids. RIP Carol Jean.

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bobknows said on March 19, 2010 at 7:23 PM

He was a good hard working religious man. She had destroyed his marriage and family, and had taken his children away from him, backed up by the evil feminist "family" excuse for a court in Washington. (Notice that the wife doesn't even use his name.) The guy deserves a medal, and the next cow who plans to take a man's children should take notice. Good for Mr. Parsons. He did what needed to be done.

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bobknows said on March 19, 2010 at 7:22 PM

Yes, the feminist hate warriors are out in force. They attack any man who will speak for fathers and families. Sorry, your old tired name calling and shaming tactics don't work any more. The name calling and feeble attempt to shut up alternate views is really pathetic. Grow up.

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sunlover_7108176 said on March 19, 2010 at 7:07 PM

Bobknows, you obviously have your own issues. I grew up with Carol and she was a good, sweet, kind, caring person. We fell out of touch over the years and I am sorry I didn't get back in touch with her while i had the chance. I also went to high school with her ex-husband and he was known as a dark guy back in the day. Bob, this tragedy has nothing to do with you or your predicament in life. As you can see, she had many people who loved her, especially her kids, and they all are devastated. Chuck will not be getting out of jail anytime soon so I'm hoping her family will be able to raise her children. And Bob, get some therapy.

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washingtonskier said on March 19, 2010 at 3:12 PM

this is so sad for many reasons... first a mother was shot and killed which is always sad... and the second reason is that some one would say that the husband did the right thing by killing her...... bobknows are we going to hear about you next month because you were killing people or is it going to be because the state lost another one of its crazy disturbed people?

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2bunnies said on March 19, 2010 at 3:11 PM

To Bobknows...Unless you were living in their household you have no idea if he was a good, religious, hardworking man or not. How do you know that he didn't do things to destroy the marriage? You are assuming it's the wife's fault and I'm willing to bet, from your comments, that you experienced a bitter divorce and as a result feel it's your duty to refer to denegrate women by referring to them as various farm animals. It is also apparent you are not a religious man because people who are religious would never condone killing a spouse or anyone for that matter, as a way to settle a dispute. It would be beneficial for you to receive counseling to overcome your prejudice against women and also to help you realize that violence is not a solution in any situation. I pray for the children, and for Carol's family and friends for the strength to carry them through their grief...and also for Charles' soul, as he'll be headed to Hell for his cold-blooded action.

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shouldbwrking said on March 19, 2010 at 10:58 AM

bobknows- where did you get all this information about the situation? Do you know them personally? Do you have first hand knowledge that she took his children away from him and destroyed the family? Sounds to me like you are projecting your own situation onto this story. And judging by your comments you are not fit to be around any children...especially your own.

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bobknows said on March 19, 2010 at 9:15 AM

Yes, the feminist hate warriors are out in force. They attack any man who will speak for fathers and families. Sorry, your old tired name calling and shaming tactics don't work any more. The evil sow who destroyed a man's family got what she deserved. All your misandry won't stop men from saying so.

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casca said on March 19, 2010 at 8:30 AM

bobknows, Hi, this is Satan. Great job, regarding your comments! See you next week. We have alot to discuss about your behavior and I can't wait to have you here with me! Pol Pot, Stalin, Hitler, Saddam Hussein and Andrew Jackson (Trail of Tears Hero) are boring me. See ya!

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musicfreak said on March 19, 2010 at 7:46 AM

bobknows, you make me ill.

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bobknows said on March 19, 2010 at 6:55 AM

So he was a good hard working religious man. She had destroyed his marriage and family, and had taken his children away from him, backed up by the evil feminist "family" excuse for a court in Washington. (Notice that the wife doesn't even use his name.) The guy deserves a medal, and the next cow who plans to take a man's children should take notice. Good for Mr. Parsons. He did what needed to be done.

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littledude said on March 18, 2010 at 6:11 PM

there is always 2 sides of the story, but whatever the case, she did not deserve to die! and the kids did not deserve to loose both of their parents like this!

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crazyeddie said on March 18, 2010 at 6:02 PM

To avoid a lawsuit, we will never know what the state did to him to cause this.

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trojan33 said on March 18, 2010 at 5:18 PM

Poor kids.

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1beachperson said on March 18, 2010 at 3:23 PM

Prayers for those poor children, and the rest of the family. RIP Carol.

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