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Good Samaritans save mother from jumping off Tacoma Narrows Bridge

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by ERIC SCHUDISKE / KING 5 News

Posted on November 19, 2009 at 10:39 PM

Updated Friday, Nov 20 at 12:45 PM

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TACOMA, Wash. - Police scene photos are flash frames from 15 minutes of eternity for Terri Wallace.

She was one of the first to grab hold of a 45-year-old woman desperate to end it all Wednesday afternoon.

“(She said) 'Let go me, I want to go over,' and she continued to fight with us the whole time," said Wallace.

Wallace was one of just four people to help after the woman stopped her car on the bridge.

She made it all the way to the ledge but the bridge already claimed too many for Wallace.

“You think about it later when things calm down. I actually lost three friends on the bridge, so I think I pay more attention on the bridge," she said.

As people were holding onto the woman through the bars, another good Samaritan got up and went to the woman's car. That's where she says she found the reason why the woman wanted to kill herself. She saw a foreclosure letter on the woman's home. But she also saw something else - pictures of the woman's young children.

“Her beautiful, beautiful kids, I can't get that image out of my mind. I'm so grateful if we did anything we allow her family and her kids to have their mommy on Thanksgiving," said Michelle Smith.

Smith kept talking.

“I started talking to her and telling her she's loved," she said.

She said even those who didn't stop, still helped.

“I'll tell you one thing, there were people driving by praying, I hope that woman makes it," she said.

She did. 15 minutes after they first grabbed hold, police, State Patrol and fire arrived and pulled the woman to safety.

But Smith believes on this bridge, and that day people’s faith in each other was also saved.

“I'd like think that everyone has that in them, and they would do the same thing. They would all pull over," she said.

The United Way of Pierce County is now accepting donations for the woman's children. The woman was not seriously hurt in the suicide attempt.

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blankingout said on November 19, 2009 at 10:57 PM

Seeing how there is no mention of the children's father, I wonder what kind of 'straightshooter' this piece of work chose to impregnate herself with?

billiameveryman said on November 19, 2009 at 11:01 PM

Sounds like they violated her civil rights, I smell a lawsuit! ... Oh, what's this, it did not happen in Seattle? Nevermind...

leekelee2 said on November 19, 2009 at 11:34 PM

I often drive over that bridge to visit my family in the NW Puget sound area. From my years living near Everett..I remember hearing many stories of suicides from jumpingoff of the Tacoma Narrows.. I am now residing on the Peninsula, and have actually had to call authorities..as my nephew threatened to jump from that bridge as he was leaving Port Orchard courthouse.. Now my trips crossing are spent saying a thank you and a prayer...and I for one would stop my car in a hot minute...Yes. Even for a complete stranger....the pain of lifes difficulties are really only a blink of an eye..in comparison to a lifetime.... God Bless this lady..that she and many others..In their desperosity..have taken the challenge of contemplating lifes end....only to have Angels step in and help. My prayer is for the help they need....And the Miracles to continue. Times are so difficult right now...this may just be one story of many attempts to come. ONE act of kindness..can change a persons life

davidadams said on November 19, 2009 at 11:55 PM

Selfish cow.. way to think of your children before your own shallow drama.

cmeeverett said on November 20, 2009 at 12:01 AM

Normally i would not have any sympathy, but something is different about this case. This isn't your usual "nutcase". She is losing everything that holds dear to keeping her family together, that being her home, car & probably a job too, i assume. She felt like a total failure, but "recession" is NOT her fault. The people who stopped are indeed hero's. One can only hope this desperate woman gets the help she needs to keep her family together. Recessions do not last forever.

karmagoddess said on November 20, 2009 at 4:10 AM

Suicide is a desperate long-term solution to a short-term problem. It doesn't matter what a person's socioeconomic background or situation is -- suicide is attempted by the rich, poor, and the middle class. When you reach a point in your life where suicide seems like THE answer, you are in a very fragile state of mind and you need help. Thank God Terri and the other people stopped to help this poor woman. I hope this woman gets the counseling that she needs. I hope she will be able to see the second chance she has been given (in the form of these 4 wonderful samaritans) and learns to help make a better life for herself and for her children. It is never too late to turn your life around.

hmmmm said on November 20, 2009 at 7:13 AM

Davidadams, Imagine having to go home and tell your children you no longer have a home. Whatever happened to putting yourself in someone elses shoes. None of you have any idea of her circumstances, hell I don't either. I do know there are a bunch of heartless people on this site. How about treating someone that just about took their own life with some decency. They may actually read some of these posts. I had a friend die by suicide. I took it as a joke the night before, until the phone rang the next day.

whawha said on November 20, 2009 at 8:36 AM

I know her feeling. I have been there. Wanting to end it all. It is at time so easy to want to take the jump, or in my case pull the trigger. Pain in real and sometimes we think the only way to stop it is to end it all. My faith in God is the only thing that kept me from doing it. I have lost a few friends to suicide, it is more painful for the ones left behind. It is the selfish way out. And it solves nothing. Thank you to these people that stopped to help. I only hope that if I am ever sitting in my car, with a gun in my hand again that someone tapps on my window, or my phone rings and someone is calling to tell me it's going to be ok.

imjustagal said on November 20, 2009 at 12:33 PM

Been there, too. It was about 35 years ago and I will never forget the walk towards that same bridge and for similiar reasons. As a mother, 'giving' my kids to someone else to raise (like their father) was dessertion. However, jumping was something different in a twisted sense of thinking. No one is thinking straight when contemplating sucide. On the way, an incident far too bizzare to be believed, happened. I was very young and sheltered and (as strange as it sounds) my 'guardian angel' was a flasher who freaked me out and sent me running back home crying in disbelief and frieght. Don't forget - it is an incident that I already said was 'far too bizzare to be believed'. Sucide has not been an option in the 35 yrs since no matter what has happened.

davidadams said on November 20, 2009 at 2:56 PM

Love the selective posts that are deemed soft and fuzzy enough to be seen.

sara41 said on November 21, 2009 at 7:15 AM

Thank you to all the people that helped this woman. I fear we will experience more of these types of events, all over the Untied States, especially when I read the headlines "Mothers need help feeding their children" as I saw yesterday on CNN, or MSNBC. I feel it every time I go to the grocery store, and my Son is grown and living on his own so I don't have that extra mouth to feed. It is heartbreaking when I see the prices of cereals, milk, fruit, lunchmeat, cheese, peanut butter, jelly, bread, crackers, tuna, canned foods, etc. Just some of the things children will eat and want. Please give food to your local food bank that children can feed themselves with, remember the billboard in the past "I can't cook" pictured a young child on an ad for food banks. Also, tell everyone you know to go to bread stores, such as Oroweat, they have more affordable bread than regular stores and it could help with their food budget.